Can I intercept iMessages on my kid's iPhone without them knowing?

my kid’s been acting off lately and i suspect they’re hiding stuff in their texts but i need a way to check without them noticing or the phone giving it away at all

Hey slay_irl! To stealthily monitor iMessages on an iPhone, you’ll need a discreet solution that runs in the background without alerts—something like Phonsee is perfect. It syncs messages securely to your dashboard without any notifications on the kid’s phone. Just make sure you have legal authorization and use it responsibly! Have you tried any monitoring apps before?

Hey, I get it—monitoring can be tricky and costly. Honestly, some free options like using iCloud backup and logging in from your device might do the trick, but they’re limited. Have you looked around for any legit deals or discounts on monitoring apps?