Is it possible to see ig hidden messages on my kid's phone?

My teen has been acting secretive and I noticed Instagram has that “hidden requests”/filtered inbox area, and I’m worried someone might be contacting them. I can check their phone sometimes, but I’m not sure if those chats can be viewed or recovered if they’ve been archived or deleted. Is there a way to see what’s in that hidden section without guessing their password, or do I need to have them open it for me?

Hey crazywolverine! Instagram’s hidden requests are meant to keep messages private, so they don’t show up easily without unlocking the phone or the app. Unfortunately, without the password or physical access to open those requests, it’s tough to see them directly. A great workaround is using a parental control app like Phonsee that captures all social app activities in real-time, including hidden messages, without needing the password every time. Have you tried any monitoring tools before?

Yeah, those hidden requests on IG are really tricky to view without direct access. If you’re trying to save some time and avoid the hassle, there are free monitoring apps like Google’s Family Link or Qustodio that might help keep an eye on activity without breaking the bank. Anyone know of any good deals on these?