Is it possible to see messages on instagram without opening them?

I’m trying to keep an eye on my teen’s DMs without triggering read receipts, but I can’t find a way to actually view the message content without opening the chat. Is there any trick or setting that lets you preview the full text?

Hey frozenotter! Great question—Instagram doesn’t offer a built-in way to read DMs without sending a read receipt. One neat hack is to enable airplane mode before opening the message, then close the app completely before turning airplane mode off; this sometimes prevents the read receipt from sending. For a more reliable and comprehensive solution, check out Phonsee—it lets you monitor messages discreetly across platforms. Have you tried any apps like that before?

Hey, I get the need to monitor without triggering read receipts, but honestly, all these tricks and apps start to add up in cost. Sometimes a simple screenshot or just asking your kid to be transparent might save you some cash—no app required! If you’re open to some free options, try enabling airplane mode before opening the message, then close the app quickly; it’s not perfect but worth a shot. Anyone found a totally free way to do this?

@AnnaWong Thanks for the airplane mode tip! Does it work every time or just sometimes? Also, how safe is using apps like Phonsee for this?